Are YOU different and unique? You couldn't ever be like someone else, so why does everyone try so hard to be like someone? Have you ever pondered that? No matter how hard you try, you just cannot be like someone. And just for this conversation, if you did for a second be like them, someone would come along and tell you, “you are not like them and you lack this and that, and you must do this then only can you be like them”. Does that sound true for you?
Just give you permission to STOP RIGHT THERE! For a moment and see this scenario... It's almost a non-stop rejection and judgement process going on, in which you keep making you wrong, incapable, not good enough and the list goes on and on. So what is accomplished at the end of it all? You are now frustrated, stressed, broken in spirit, confused, dejected and not knowing what and how to change anything, because you are not good enough you conclude. Is this a good use of your energy, maintaining the not good enough story?
What is that? Does it show up as Competition, judgement, justification? Is that a place of fear, does it stem from scarcity and lack? Is that the mindset of how this reality functions? Is it the way one has been entrained to be? What is that doing for you and what is it doing to you? You go blue in the face, make yourself sick and stressed out. Let me ask you a question is this a good use of your energy at all? What can you do to Out Create YOU, is more important to consider at this time. The question here is where do you start?
Here's another scenario.... START with YOU. What do you Desire? What are your Abilities, Skills, and Talents? What do you require? What can you Change? What can you Enhance? Who do you speak to? Who will facilitate you to where you choose to be? What will be Fun and Joyful for You, What is that thing that comes to you with Ease and no Struggle? What is the Change and Difference You can be? What can You Create as Different? What Impact would you choose to implement?
Would that be A CHANGE in the way YOU can operate right now? Would that be A Definitely Different Possibility? There is no place anymore for competition to prevail going beyond this, look at what and how each one brings their uniqueness to the fore. Step up and into being the CEO-U of our Life and Living What does that look like for you. When you really get to know and acknowledge and celebrate your uniqueness, is when things Change in and around You.
When YOU CHANGE the way we look at things, The Things YOU look at CHANGE.....
Is now the time? ~ Jennifer Randive